5 Regrets brides have on their wedding day… {continued}
#3 Not Hiring a Videographer
Here’s Part 3 of “5 common regrets brides have on their wedding day”. Number 3 on the list - Not Hiring a Videographer
Your wedding day is one of the most important and cherished moments in your life. You’ve spent months (or maybe even years!) planning every detail—choosing the perfect venue, designing the decor, picking out the ideal dress, and curating a guest list of the people you love most. It’s a whirlwind of emotions and experiences that you’ll want to relive for years to come.
While photography is often top of mind when it comes to documenting your wedding, there’s another key piece of the puzzle: videography. Photos are wonderful at capturing still moments, but nothing brings the atmosphere, energy, and emotions of your wedding day back to life quite like a video. In this post, we’ll explore the many reasons why hiring a videographer for your wedding is one of the best decisions you can make.
1. Relive the Day in Full Motion and Sound
Your wedding day will go by faster than you expect. Between the excitement, the nervous anticipation, and the constant flow of events, it’s easy to miss out on small moments. Hiring a videographer ensures that you don’t just capture the highlights but the entire essence of the day—complete with movement and sound.
Imagine being able to watch your first look over and over again, hearing your partner’s voice tremble as they read their vows, or watching the hilarious and heartfelt speeches from your loved ones. A wedding video allows you to revisit these moments, hear the laughter, see the joy in your guests' faces, and even catch details you might have missed.
2. Capture Emotions and Atmosphere
Photos are great for freezing specific moments, but they can’t capture the way emotions build over time. Videography does this in a way that is unmatched. From the nervous smiles before walking down the aisle to the tears during the ceremony, and the laughter on the dance floor, a wedding video captures the feel of the day.
A videographer has the skill to tell your wedding story with emotional depth, weaving together the special moments in a way that creates a narrative. This storytelling ability gives you something that feels truly personal and unique to your relationship and wedding.
3. Immortalize Your Vows and Speeches
One of the most memorable parts of your wedding day will be the words that are spoken—your vows, the speeches from family and friends, and maybe even the toasts during the reception. These moments are deeply personal and heartfelt, and while photos can capture reactions, they can’t preserve the words themselves.
A videographer can record your vows in full, allowing you to revisit those meaningful promises year after year. Imagine sitting down on your anniversary and rewatching the exact moment you said "I do" and hearing the joy in your voice. Speeches, too, are often filled with anecdotes and wisdom from the people who know you best. Preserving these in video form ensures that these moments aren’t just remembered but experienced again.
4. Capture the Unexpected Moments
Weddings are filled with candid, unscripted moments that are often the most treasured memories. Maybe it's the flower girl doing an impromptu dance during the ceremony, or a funny moment during the reception that no one could have planned. While photographers are great at capturing some of these, videographers can document them in real-time, adding an extra layer of richness to your wedding memories.
A good videographer will anticipate these moments and be ready to film them, so nothing slips through the cracks. Years from now, when you’re watching your wedding video, it’s often these unexpected, spontaneous moments that will bring the biggest smile to your face.
5. Share the Day with Those Who Couldn’t Be There
Unfortunately, not everyone you care about may be able to attend your wedding. Whether due to health, travel constraints, or other circumstances, some guests may have to miss out. Having a professional wedding video allows you to share the magic of the day with them in a way that photos just can’t replicate.
Many videographers can provide edited highlight reels or full-length videos that can be easily shared with family and friends. This means that even those who couldn’t attend will still get to experience the joy, emotions, and love from your wedding day as if they were right there with you.
If hiring a professional videographer is just not in the budget, at the very least, have your phone on a tripod so someone can hit that record button and capture your ceremony. You could also ask a friend to capture some candid content throughout the day so you can preserve some special memories on video.
Next up … No. 4 - Having a friend (non-professional photographer) take your photos.
Sunnyside Farm is a locally owned and operated business. We sincerely hope to encourage couples to learn more about the value and importance of choosing a locally owned business when it’s time to book your wedding venue & vendors. With locally owned venues you will often see a higher level of hospitality, better communication and a greater desire to truly ensure your wedding exceeds expectations. We are thrilled to support wedding venue owners from around the country with a weekly shout out in our blog. You can find locally owned wedding venues featured on this wedding venue map.
Visit these great venues for more wedding inspo.
5 Regrets brides have on their wedding day… {continued}
#2 Drinking Too Much Alcohol
Here’s Part 2 of “5 common regrets brides have on their wedding day”. Number 2 on the list - Drinking Too Much Alcohol
Let's face it, you’ve been stressing, planning and anticipating this day for a long time. It’s only natural that you would want to have a few drinks to celebrate that your wedding day has finally arrived. This will be one of the most important days in you and your spouse’s life together. A day filled with joy, love and celebration with friends and family. However, it’s a long day and if you aren’t deliberate in moderating your alcohol intake, things can escalate quickly into being an unforgettable day for the wrong reasons. Here’s some reasons to keep drinking to a minimum:
You want to remember every moment.
There will be so many memorable moments on your wedding day and you will want to remember all the details of every one; getting ready with your friends and family, the ceremony, vows, first dance, cake cutting and toasts. Alcohol can affect memory and the last thing you want is to have hazy recollections of the day. You will want to be completely present in each and every moment and detail.
Avoid unwanted embarrassment.
Weddings are often recorded by professional videographers and guests with smartphones. Too much alcohol can lead to behavior you might regret later. We’ve seen a few times where over-drinking has lead to awkward moments, for example, slurred speeches, stumbling on the dance floor or not cooperating during photos.
The risk of an emotional rollercoaster.
Weddings are an emotional day all on their own, and alcohol can amplify feelings. Too much alcohol can lead to crying, being overly sentimental or even irritability. Small disagreements or stressful situations (like weather or logistical hiccups) can seem much worse if you’ve been drinking. By limiting your alcohol intake you can keep your emotions in check.
Ensuring smooth logistics.
Weddings involve tight schedules and coordination with vendors. Alcohol can slow down your response times and lead to misunderstandings or forgotten tasks. Your ability to manage the flow of the day is crucial. Vendors will check in with you throughout the day and evening so clear decision making abilities is key.
You don’t want to get sick.
Drinking too much can upset your stomach, headaches, vomiting, and overall discomfort. Do we need to say more? :)
Keeping your guests comfortable.
Guests look to the bride and groom to set the tone for the evening. Overindulging in alcohol can create an atmosphere that encourages others to drink too much as well. Weddings are also usually attended by children and older family members who may not appreciate excessive drinking.
Safety first.
Drinking too much can lead to accidents, injury or risky behavior. Excessive alcohol consumption increases the chance of someone getting hurt. Don’t forget to plan ahead for transportation for your guests, such as shuttle services, so that all guests get home safely.
A better morning after.
Weddings usually have activities the following day, including brunches, farewells with friends and family and potentially an early morning flight for your honeymoon. Brutal hangovers are never fun, but especially miserable if you have plans the following day.
HERE ARE SOME TIPS TO AVOID DRINKING TOO MUCH ON YOUR WEDDING DAY:
Try setting a personal drink limit, like one drink per hour or only doing mimosas and the champagne toast.
Designate someone you trust to help pace your drinks, like a maid of honor, best man, or even the bartender.
Stay hydrated throughout the day, and eat regularly to keep your energy and mood stable.
Alternate alcoholic drinks with water, and make sure to eat throughout the day, not just during the reception.
Suggest waiting until after the reception to relax with a drink in private as a couple, away from the crowd.
Keep the next day in mind. Drinking in moderation means you’ll feel good and enjoy the first day of married life instead of spending it nursing a headache.
Offer plenty of non-alcoholic drink options and consider having fun mocktails available so guests feel included without feeling pressured to drink alcohol.
Focus on making genuine connections with guests and taking in the experience fully, rather than relying on alcohol to enhance the celebration.
It’s perfectly fine to enjoy a few drinks on your wedding day, but moderation is the key to ensuring everything runs smoothly.
Next up … No. 3 Not having a videographer.
Sunnyside Farm is a locally owned and operated business. We sincerely hope to encourage couples to learn more about the value and importance of choosing a locally owned business when it’s time to book your wedding venue & vendors. With locally owned venues you will often see a higher level of hospitality, better communication and a greater desire to truly ensure your wedding exceeds expectations. We are thrilled to support wedding venue owners from around the country with a weekly shout out in our blog. You can find locally owned wedding venues featured on this wedding venue map.
Visit these great venues is more wedding inspo.
5 Regrets brides have on their wedding day…
#1 Wearing an Uncomfortable Dress or Shoes
I’m doing a five part series on common regrets brides have on their wedding day. Number 1 on the list - choosing a dress or shoes that aren’t comfortable.
Planning your wedding outfit is one of the most exciting parts of your big day, but it’s essential to prioritize comfort along with style. Here are some tips to help you choose a wedding dress and shoes that will keep you comfortable throughout the day:
Choosing a Comfortable Wedding Dress
Know Your Venue:
Consider the setting of your wedding. For a summer wedding at venues like Sunnyside Farm, a lighter, breathable fabric might be ideal, especially during warmer months. If you are opting for a spring, fall or winter wedding make sure you have a stylish wrap to wear when it gets chilly.
Consider Your Movement:
Your dress should allow you to move easily, whether you’re walking down the aisle, dancing, or sitting. Make sure to practice these things when dress shopping to see how the dress responds.
Prioritize Breathable Fabrics:
Fabrics like silk, chiffon, or tulle are not only beautiful but also breathable and lightweight, which can help you stay comfortable.
Think About Length and Weight:
If your dress is too long or heavy, it can become a burden. Consider a hem that allows you to walk without tripping or a dress with less volume for easier movement. There’s nothing worse than tugging at your dress or lifting your hem all night so you don’t step on it.
Don’t Forget About Support:
Ensure your dress provides the right support, especially in the bodice. A well-fitted dress with built-in support can save you from discomfort throughout the day.
Consider a Change of Dress:
If you love the idea of a more glamorous gown for the ceremony but want to dance the night away without restrictions, consider changing into a lighter, simpler dress for the reception.
Choosing Comfortable Wedding Shoes
Break Them In:
Whatever shoes you choose, make sure to break them in before the big day. Wear them around the house to soften the material and ensure they don’t cause blisters.
Think About Heel Height:
Consider your comfort level with heels. If you’re not used to wearing high heels, wedding day might not be the best time to start. Low heels, wedges, or even elegant flats can be stylish and comfortable options.
Consider the Terrain:
If your wedding is outdoors at a venue like Sunnyside Farm, you might want to choose shoes that are stable on grass and gravel. Wedges or block heels provide more stability compared to stilettos.
Cushioning is Key:
Look for shoes with ample cushioning in the sole. You can also add gel inserts for extra comfort. This may make you feel like an old person lol! But trust me, you won’t regret it. :)
Bring a Backup Pair:
Have a second pair of more comfortable shoes, like flats or sandals, to change into during the reception.
Match Your Shoes to Your Dress Length:
Ensure that your shoes complement the length of your dress. If you plan on switching to flats later, make sure your dress won’t drag on the ground when you change shoes.
Kendall opted for the ultimate comfortable shoe, choosing white crocs :)
Remember, you’ll be wearing your wedding dress and shoes for many hours, so comfort should be a top priority. By choosing wisely, you can enjoy your day to the fullest without any discomfort holding you back!
Next up (will be posted next week) … No. 2 Drinking too much on your wedding day.
Sunnyside Farm is a locally owned and operated business. We sincerely hope to encourage couples to learn more about the value and importance of choosing a locally owned business when it’s time to book your wedding venue & vendors. With locally owned venues you will often see a higher level of hospitality, better communication and a greater desire to truly ensure your wedding exceeds expectations. We are thrilled to support wedding venue owners from around the country with a weekly shout out in our blog. You can find locally owned wedding venues featured on this wedding venue map.
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Inviting littles to your Idaho Wedding? Here are some fun ideas …
Hey that's me and my cute grandkids :)
Let’s face it, kids are probably not stoked to be attending a wedding. But if you put a little thought into ways to keep them entertained, everyone will be happier, parents included. Here are a few ways to keep kids busy at your wedding:
1. Set up a kids table. Cover the table with paper and set out crayons, stickers, etc. You can also find cute personalized coloring sheets on Etsy.
2. Set up an area with lawn games. Cornhole, Jenga, tic tac toe, ring toss, etc. This will keep kids and adults entertained.
3. Rent a bouncy castle. You can find white ones now that are perfect for weddings. Make sure you have an adult or older teen stationed there to supervise.
4. Personal treat bags. If your venue doesn’t have room for a kids table, make up bags with a coloring sheet, crayons, treats, little games, etc.
5. Bubbles. It’s surprising how long bubbles will entertain kids.
6. Set up a snack station - granola bars, goldfish crackers, ring pops, etc.
7. If you have assigned seating, consider a personalized placemat where the child is sitting. You can find these on Etsy with the bride and groom’s name filled with fun little activities and coloring.
8. If your venue has space, consider setting up a separate kids area and hiring a babysitter or two.
Having activities for kids at a wedding is a great idea for several reasons:
Keeps Kids Entertained: Weddings can be long events, and having dedicated activities for kids ensures they stay occupied and happy. This helps parents enjoy the event more, knowing their children are entertained.
Reduces Disruptions: When kids are engaged in fun activities, they are less likely to get restless or bored, which can reduce disruptions during important moments like the ceremony, speeches, or first dance.
Inclusive Atmosphere: Providing activities for kids makes families feel welcome. It shows that the couple values the presence of all guests, including the little ones, which contributes to a warm and inclusive atmosphere.
Memorable Experience for Kids: Just as adults remember the fun they had at a wedding, kids will remember the special activities designed just for them. Whether it’s crafts, games, or a kids’ table, these elements can make the day enjoyable for all age groups.
Less Stress for Parents: When kids are happily engaged, parents can relax and focus on enjoying the celebration without constantly having to entertain or supervise their children.
Incorporating activities for kids at a wedding can lead to a more enjoyable experience for everyone involved, ensuring that both adults and children have a great time.
All Photos by SS Photography & Design
Sunnyside Farm is a locally owned and operated business. We sincerely hope to encourage couples to learn more about the value and importance of choosing a locally owned business when it’s time to book your wedding venue & vendors. With locally owned venues you will often see a higher level of hospitality, better communication and a greater desire to truly ensure your wedding exceeds expectations. We are thrilled to support wedding venue owners from around the country with a weekly shout out in our blog. You can find locally owned wedding venues featured on this wedding venue map.
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Let’s talk dress codes at weddings… {treasure valley wedding venue}
I personally love when a couples have a dress code for their wedding. It takes all the guess work out of trying to figure out what to wear. Here at Sunnyside Farm the dress code is usually pretty casual but we’ve also had “garden party” themes as well as “all black attire”. I loved the all black attire, everyone looked so classy and the pictures turned out amazing! I recently saw a great idea - to attach a Pinterest Board to your wedding website to show exactly what you have in mind for guest attire. Sometimes having a visual really helps.
Below is a breakdown of the most common dress codes you can request for your wedding:
1. Casual
A casual dress code is often the most relaxed. Attire can range from sundresses for women to shorts and polo shirts for men. While comfort is key, it is still important to avoid overly casual items such as flip-flops or gym wear.
2. Semi-Formal
Semi-formal attire is a step up from casual but not as strict as formal wear. Women may choose cocktail dresses or dressy separates, while men should wear slacks with a dress shirt, possibly adding a blazer or tie. The focus should be on polished and stylish choices without being overly extravagant.
3. Formal or Black Tie Optional
This dress code suggests that guests can opt for either formal or black tie attire. Women typically select long evening gowns or chic cocktail dresses, while men should wear a dark suit with a tie. If they choose black tie, a tuxedo is appropriate.
4. Black Tie
A black tie dress code requires a high level of formality. Women should wear floor-length gowns or elegant cocktail dresses, while men should be in black tuxedos with a formal shirt and bow tie. Accessories should be understated to maintain the sophisticated look.
5. White Tie
The most formal dress code, white tie events require women to wear full-length evening gowns, often with gloves and elegant accessories. Men are expected to don a black tailcoat, white shirt, waistcoat, and bow tie. It is essential to embrace the highest level of formality when attending such occasions.
6. Themed or All One Color
We’ve also seen Beach Theme and Vintage. All white weddings, all black or neutrals are also popular choices.
Understanding these dress codes helps guests choose their attire appropriately, ensuring they feel comfortable and confident at the wedding.
Sunnyside Farm is a locally owned and operated business. We sincerely hope to encourage couples to learn more about the value and importance of choosing a locally owned business when it’s time to book your wedding venue & vendors. With locally owned venues you will often see a higher level of hospitality, better communication and a greater desire to truly ensure your wedding exceeds expectations. We are thrilled to support wedding venue owners from around the country with a weekly shout out in our blog. You can find locally owned wedding venues featured on this wedding venue map.
Visit these great venues is more wedding inspo.
Why we still need wedding ushers in 2024 {treasure valley wedding venue}
Wedding ushers can still play a valuable role in modern weddings, though their duties have evolved. Traditionally, ushers were responsible for seating guests, guiding them to their seats based on the bride or groom's side, and assisting with general organization. While this role is not as rigid as it once was, many weddings still benefit from having ushers.
Here are some ways having ushers can really help your wedding run smoothly.
1. SOMEONE NEEDS TO GREET YOUR GUESTS. It’s always nice to be greeted by someone friendly when you arrive to a new place. Guests often have questions (Where is the reception? Can we get a drink now? Where are the restrooms? etc) so it’s nice to have someone who has some knowledge of the order of events and where things are located.
2. SOME OF YOUR GUESTS MIGHT NEED ESCORTING TO THEIR SEATS. Elderly guests will appreciate a study arm to grab especially if the ceremony is in a grassy area where it may be a bit uneven.
3. USHERS CAN HELP BALANCE EACH SIDE OF THE AISLE. This is helpful whether you have a large wedding or small. If it’s large they can help get all the seats filled up in an organized fashion so there aren’t empty seats scattered throughout the space. If it’s a smaller wedding, they can make sure the aisle seats are filled. Pictures look a lot better if there aren’t empty aisle seats.
4. USHERS KEEP RESERVED SEATS ON RESERVE Sometimes guests are busy visiting, looking at their phones or oooing and ahhhing over the gorgeous wedding decor and don’t notice the reserved signs for family.
5. YOU’LL WANT SOMEONE TO SEAT LATE ARRIVALS If someone shows up late you want to make sure they don’t interrupt an important part of the ceremony. An usher can help them find a seat at just the right time.
Ushers can be guys or girls of almost any age. But because the job bears some level of responsibility, it’s best to choose people who are least in their late teens or older.
Ushers can be teenage siblings, cousins, aunts, or uncles. They can also be close friends that couldn’t make the commitment to be in your wedding party. They can be neighbors, close coworkers, longtime family friends, or any person you can rely on to help make your day run smoothly.
Ushers can be anyone that’s important to you and that you want to give a special role to on your big day. What do you think? Will you have ushers at your wedding?
Having ushers can avoid empty seating near the aisles. Pictures will look better if all the seats towards the center are full.
Sunnyside Farm is a locally owned and operated business. We sincerely hope to encourage couples to learn more about the value and importance of choosing a locally owned business when it’s time to book your wedding venue & vendors. With locally owned venues you will often see a higher level of hospitality, better communication and a greater desire to truly ensure your wedding exceeds expectations. We are thrilled to support wedding venue owners from around the country with a weekly shout out in our blog. You can find locally owned wedding venues featured on this wedding venue map.
Visit these great venues is more wedding inspo.
Alyssa & Marco {treasure valley wedding venue
June 8, 2024 was the perfect day for a perfect summer wedding. Marco and Alyssa are Weiser natives and make the trek back to their hometown to celebrate their wedding day. We’ve known Alyssa since she was a little girl so we were so excited when she chose Sunnyside Farm.
Alyssa chose such a darling theme, with citrus and dried flowers as the main elements. She diy’ed most of her decor and did a fantastic job. From her beautiful seating chart to her adorable centerpieces everything was picture perfect.
Nataly Davies Photography captured every detail perfectly. This was her first wedding and I’m so excited to include her on our preferred vendor list. Her entire gallery was amazing.
Laurelle Jones @ Wildwood Flowers & Events was the wedding day coordinator and when she shows up, we know everything is going to run smoothly and everyone’s going to have a fun day!
Tacos El Ray brought out their food truck and I mean, what goes better with a wedding than tacos?? I love that this is a fun new trend, we are here for it!
Nothing Bundt Cakes made the cutest and most delicious bundt cakes.
DJ Dan @ DLR Events traveled over from Eastern Idaho and kept everyone dancing and having a good time.
Chloe Yraguen did a fantastic job with hair and make up. As you can see, Alyssa and her bridesmaids were absolutely stunning.
Alyssa and Marco included us in their wedding day, so we were able to hang out and really enjoy the festivities. We are so thankful they chose the farm for their wedding and we wish them love and happiness. XOXO
Sunnyside Farm is a locally owned and operated business. We sincerely hope to encourage couples to learn more about the value and importance of choosing a locally owned business when it’s time to book your wedding venue & vendors. With locally owned venues you will often see a higher level of hospitality, better communication and a greater desire to truly ensure your wedding exceeds expectations. We are thrilled to support wedding venue owners from around the country with a weekly shout out in our blog. You can find locally owned wedding venues featured on this wedding venue map.
Visit these great venues is more wedding inspo.
Wedding Websites
Wedding websites are all the rage! They are easy to set up and provide guests with all the information they need. Here’s some important information to include on your site:
Tell how you met, first date, proposal, etc.
Ceremony/Reception Details
Dress Code
RSVP Date
Transportation/Hotel Details
Registry
Kid friendly or not
If it will be an unplugged ceremony
If you’re having a cash bar
Introduce your bridal party
Things to do in the area
Best Wedding Websites:
Joy
The Knot
Minted
Riley & Grey
Bliss & Bone
WedSites
Wedding Wire